Framing the Question

Joie and Joan have both asked me to consider the question of "what sort of person do I want to date?" versus "what sort of person do I want to settle down with, reproduce, and live happily ever after?"

OK, let's work the numbers:

To Date	To Have and to Hold
Intelligent	Intelligent
Witty	Witty
Faithful	Faithful
Pretty	Pretty
Gentle	Gentle
"Friendly"	"Friendly"
Healthy (mental)	Healthy (mental)
Healthy (emotional)	Healthy (emotional)
Healthy (physical)	Healthy (physical)
Healthy (financial)	Healthy (financial)
Minimal Baggage (kids, crazy exes)	Minimal Baggage (kids, crazy exes)

Not finding any significant differences so far. Little help?

-Rich